The mistake of helping the child learn to walk

The mistake of helping the child learn to walk

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I do not know of any parent who at the time their children took their first steps did not help them to support themselves. Is something innate that arises from within us when we see that the child begins to get up from the ground.

That pride of father / mother drives us to want the child to walk as soon as possible, to feel it as soon as possible, wake up as soon as possible ... the fact is that this impulse that leads us to help and force the child to walk, or to take positions that they would not take in a natural state, make your child delay their motor development. I am not saying it, it is said by the study carried out by pediatrician Emmi Pickler and which has concluded in a method known as “The movement in freedom of the baby”.

I will explain what the Baby Movement method consists of and why You should not force or help the baby learn to walk.

According to the pediatrician Emmi pikler, the child goes through different stages in his motor development:

  • At first the baby is face up and begins to move his hands and feet fiercely.
  • Then he begins to lift his butt, shoulders and gets to his side.
  • He learns to turn and turns upside down, in that position he begins to lift your head for a long time.
  • He is able to get on all fours, and begins to crawl, roll and crawl.
  • He begins to semi-sit up, with one hand resting on the ground.
  • Get feel altogether.
  • He gets on his knees with his torso upright, and grabs onto objects to stand up.
  • It stands on its own without holding on.
  • Start your first steps.

These stages must be fulfilled in that order, that is the natural order of motor maturation of a baby, however parents insist on skipping stages and we want him to get up before he has even begun to sit up.

We hold our little one by the fingers so that he can take little steps when has no leg strength, or we put him in forced positions, such as sitting leaning on a pillow, preventing his free movement without the help of adults.

All these behaviors, according to this study, are detrimental to motor development of the baby and we tell you why.

1- By putting the child in a position that he could not adopt by himself we force not to be able to move. Like turning him upside down, since he can neither look at his feet nor move sideways.

2- Those forced and unnatural positions they make the baby's muscles tense or in bad positions. On the other hand, those muscles may still not have enough strength to hold you upright, which can lead to accidents.

3- We are slowing down your autonomy, since the child will need the adult to be able to move freely or change position.

So, isn't it good for adults to help children or teach them certain movements? The answer is no, it can even be counterproductive. The pediatrician emphasizes that motor development is spontaneous and innate, therefore we must facilitate the child freedom of movement at all times with actions so simple with putting them comfortable clothes, not locking them in parks with bars, or letting them crawl and fall when they try to challenge themselves.

In addition, the study reveals how children who freely learned to move, without parental help, demonstrated greater agility, autonomy, learning and self-control motor than those of the parents who tried to teach them and helped them walk.

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